Winning is Giving - How to Give Intelligently to Achieve Success in Your Relationships and Business

By Bruce Painter

Learn to increase your Giving Intelligence - a powerful way for you to get more of what you want in your life. And it only takes repeating four steps.

4 Tips to Giving Intelligently

Tip 1 - Give some thought and do some planning before you give to others.

You probably would not want to give to a person with criminal intentions. Also it would not be wise to give freely to a child who is spoiled and demanding. A valuable exercise is to write on a piece of paper who you give to, what you give, and what benefits or detriments they receive.

Tip 2 - Discover what you like to give to others.

If people repeatedly ask you to do things for them that you dislike doing, you are probably going to end up feeling unhappy about giving those things. You might even feel like a martyr about it. Martyrs are miserable people who make others miserable.

Discover what you like to give that is beneficial to others and give it. Success both personally and professionally is formed when you learn this habit.

Tip 3 - When you give, make sure it is something that is wanted by the recipient.

If we are giving something to people that they don't want, it could be a waste of time, effort or money. For example, we may give a gift to someone, and it is not needed by them. Another example, is talking to someone about something that they have no interest in. Make sure what you give is of value to the recipient.

Tip 4 - Give to those people who like to give back.

Some people naturally like to give. They tend to be the winners in life.

The magic is created from being a giving person who gives to giving people. To attract giving people, learn to become the most giving person you can be. You will win in all areas of your life including relationships, money, success and happiness.

Bonus Tip - Ask your family, friends and business associates what they want and help them get it. And now I would like to offer you a free downloadable audio to help you get what you want both professionally and personally. It is titled - How to Achieve Stellar Results Using Giving Zone Principles. You can get your instant access at http://www.livinginthegivingzone.com/gintelligence-bonus/gibonus.html

From Bruce Painter - Amazon Best-Selling Author of The Giving Zone, speaker, and life coach